Noreen Antao went into her second marriage with high hopes-that theman she loved, and who loved her and her children, would be the light ofher life, for the rest of her life.Just before the marriage he revealed to her his deepest secret, somethinghe had revealed to no one; he liked to wear women's clothes. "His comingout of the closet to me, put me in the closet with him." This led them on a 15year journey of discovery, deeper and deeper into a world of crossdressing, transgenderism, homosexuality, and even B&D."It was very sad to watch Jason becoming more female than male; I wasgradually losing my husband to 'the other woman'."Noreen's experiences off er a rare look into the struggle of fi nding one's truesexuality, and the eff ect that can have on one's spouse, career and family.