This book is aimed at anyone who wishes to fall in love. You need to search for love. It does not in this age fall on your lap. Further, it takes time and effort to build up. You are fooling yourself if you think that you have met a handsome strong man or a beautiful girl and that you have fallen in love with him or her. You have an emotional attachment combined with an intimacy (well desired intimacy) of relationship. With this sort of love, one day you will be together and the next day he or she will be gone.